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Best Thing To Jerk Off To

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Best Thing To Jerk Off To

Best Thing To Jerk Off To

“The best thing to jerk off to may seem like an obvious one, but when it comes to male masturbation, it can be hard to know where to begin. There are so many things that turn us on, from real life experiences such as fantasies about our partners or other people, to the stuff we see in movies and porn. The problem with most of these options is that they’re not exclusive to men. If your partner happens to have breasts, then there will probably be times during sex when she flashes you — whether directly at you or indirectly through her clothing. Or if you happen to watch pornography featuring women, even though you might prefer to masturbate with a man instead, you’ll notice that some of those girls also wear clothes. Masturbating while thinking about another person (or more than one) can create feelings of jealousy and insecurity. In fact, it can make you feel downright insecure when you think about how aroused you feel when someone else touches you…and this is before you’ve even touched yourself. This is why I’d recommend keeping all of your masturbatory activities strictly within the realm of fantasy. That doesn’t mean you need to spend hours upon end daydreaming up scenarios, either. It just means making sure that whatever turns you on stays within your own mind rather than being shared with others.
If you find yourself struggling with this, here are some tips for finding the right material to get you started. First of all, don’t forget the classics. Pornography has been around for years, and chances are good that you already have some favorites stored away somewhere. If you haven’t seen them recently, take a look at them again. They’re great sources for new ideas because they tend to focus on specific themes and often feature different kinds of people doing very explicit things. You may enjoy watching gay porn, for example, but not necessarily straight porn. Some heterosexual porn does include scenes focused on oral stimulation, but usually only between two males. A lot of lesbian porn includes no penetration whatsoever. And while there are plenty of stories available starring women, the majority of the time, female masturbation isn’t featured in them. Instead, the focus tends to be almost entirely on what the woman wants and needs. Think about which kind of scene would bring out your innermost desires. Once you start looking for something that really gets you going, you should be able to narrow down your search pretty easily.
Once you do find something that works for you, try using it as a starting point. For instance, let’s say you like to fantasize about having sex with your mom. Start by picturing her naked, touching herself, and maybe even putting on a sexy outfit. Then imagine yourself penetrating her. Keep playing with these images until you reach orgasm. Don’t worry too much about getting everything perfect; just keep moving forward. When you become comfortable enough to touch yourself without worrying about pleasing anyone else, you can start focusing on bringing yourself closer together. Just relax, breathe deeply, and concentrate on feeling good. As long as you don’t overthink things, you shouldn’t feel embarrassed or uncomfortable about anything that happens inside of you. Also remember that sometimes, you won’t be able to tell exactly where your climax begins. Don’t be afraid to play around with the timing and intensity of your orgasms. After all, you’re masturbating to fit your personal preferences.
Now that you’re ready to go solo, there are still lots of ways to explore. Try changing positions. Maybe you like to lie on your stomach and use a pillow under your butt for support? Or perhaps you want to sit upright but lean back against a wall? Experiment with different parts of your body. Even the small muscles that run along your sides can produce a nice little tingle. Remember, masturbation is meant to stimulate both your mind and your genitals. So take advantage of any opportunities that come your way. One of my favorite things to do is to pretend that I’m showering after swimming laps in the pool. I stand in front of the mirror, soap up my chest and wash my hair, then put shampoo in my hands and rub my fingers through my hair. Next, I massage some conditioner into my scalp and rinse it out thoroughly. Finally, I open the bathroom door and step outside, closing it behind me so nobody sees me. My towel falls down around my waist and I continue washing myself — slowly and sensually. The whole process lasts anywhere from five minutes to half an hour. I love that I can get turned on simply by imagining myself bathing. While I’m at it, I also like to add sounds to the experience. Sometimes I hum the theme song from “”Star Trek”” (“”Where No Man Has Gone Before””), other times I sing softly to myself. Any sound makes me feel better.
Another thing you can do is talk dirty to yourself. Tell yourself that you’re horny, tell yourself that you’re excited, and let loose with whatever comes to mind. Get creative with it and experiment. See what works best for you. Talking dirty to yourself can help relieve stress, improve confidence, and increase arousal. It’s also fun!
I hope that gives you a few fresh ideas. Good luck jerking off, and happy masturbating!”

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