How To Make Someone Not Like You
Have you ever been in a situation where someone gave off signs that they were interested in you? And then when you tried to get their attention, they did everything possible to avoid you or make your interaction as brief as possible? Well, sometimes this can happen with guys who are already into you; when you start pursuing them, they may think that you’re trying too hard and they’ll want to push you away.
This happens because of something called “The Law of Attraction.” Basically, what this means is that we attract people based on our own vibration – how we feel about ourselves and how others treat us. If you come across as desperate and clingy, men will find themselves attracted to you less than if you act more confident and relaxed around them. So even though you might have feelings for him, if he thinks you’re coming on too strong, he’s going to resist you. In fact, some guys will actively avoid women who seem overly needy.
So if you’ve got one of those cases where someone has really started giving you signals (or maybe you’ve been avoiding someone all along), here are a few tips on how to make him not like you:
Tell Him Yourself: Sometimes, people will give off subtle hints but never actually tell you directly that they don’t like you. It’s important that you let them know yourself so that they’re aware of their actions. This doesn’t necessarily have to take place face-to-face, although that is probably the best option. However, there are other ways to do it without being face-to-face. For example, you could send him an email saying something like:
“Hey, I was wondering if you had any plans tonight. My friend is having a party and I was hoping you’d join me?”
Or you could text him and say:
“I’m heading over to my friend’s house later. Do you mind tagging along?”
It’s important to keep things simple and casual whenever possible. After all, you don’t want to waste your energy creating awkward situations that only serve to hurt both parties involved.
Also, remember that you aren’t always obligated to respond right away to these kinds of interactions. Some guys won’t follow up with you immediately after receiving a message from you, and while this isn’t always bad, it’s good to at least have a general idea of whether or not you should continue talking to someone. It would be pretty annoying to receive a text message from someone telling you that they’re busy, and then wait forever to hear back from them.
Get His Attention Another Way: Once again, it’s important to let him know that you’re interested in him. But instead of doing things the typical way, you should try getting his attention in another way. For instance, you could call him out by sending him a very funny joke or meme, which will hopefully catch his interest enough for him to want to talk to you. Or you could write something cute or sweet on a piece of paper and leave it somewhere that he’ll definitely see it.
If you have trouble thinking of ideas on the spot, you could pick up a book or watch YouTube videos for inspiration. Also, you could create a fake Facebook profile specifically designed to gain his affection. Just go through his friends list and add random female friends who are attractive to him and flirt with him via messages, comments, etc. Eventually, he’ll notice that you’re only showing him favoritism towards certain girls and will begin to wonder why.
Try Flirting With Other Guys: If you’re still struggling to get a man’s attention, you could also flirt with other guys. Try to strike up conversations with other men that you wouldn’t normally interact with. Maybe ask them questions about sports or politics, or anything else that you two share interests in. This will show him that you’re capable of interacting with other men without needing him.
When you’re flirting with other guys, it’s important to remember that you shouldn’t use sexual innuendos or put pressure on them to sleep with you. Simply flirt with them and enjoy each other’s company. The goal isn’t to sleep with anyone, but rather to build friendships between you two. As long as you’re comfortable with yourself and don’t force anything, you shouldn’t encounter any problems.
Sometimes, especially if you haven’t seen someone in a while, you might find that it takes a little bit longer to win someone over. Even if you’ve been pursuing someone for weeks or months, it’s normal to have to chase someone down a couple times before they finally decide to pay attention to you. But once you master these techniques, you’ll no longer have to worry about losing a potential mate. Instead, you’ll be able to effortlessly attract guys who want you!
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