Things To Do To Yourself Sexually Guys
“””You’re my inspiration.”” – Aaliyah
If I can be inspired by anyone, it’s going to be myself. There are so many things about me I’d like to improve upon and one way I do this is through self-pleasure. Every woman should masturbate on occasion because it’s healthy and fun! Masturbation may not be your thing, but there are lots of other ways you can enjoy yourself sexually guys.
There is nothing better than feeling good about yourself while getting off on your own terms. If you have an issue with masturbation then perhaps you need to look at how you treat women when you’re alone. You must learn to respect yourself before you start respecting others. So long as you don’t harm another person, you shouldn’t really care what they think of your body or sexuality. It’s time to get comfortable with being comfortable with yourself. The best way to become comfortable with yourself is to give yourself permission to be exactly who you want to be. This means loving and accepting everything about you.
Shop the underwear section. Don’t buy anything boring. Look at lingerie stores online and try them on. If you aren’t comfortable with anything, ask someone else if they have any recommendations. Lingerie shops often carry thongs, briefs, boyshorts, bikini panties, babydolls and corsets. Try different styles until you find something that feels right. When you shop for clothes, take into consideration how you would like to wear each item. Would you prefer to go out on the town? Or maybe you just love wearing a dress/shirt/blouse everyday. Whatever your preferences, make sure whatever you choose doesn’t scream “”I’m too old!””
Wear something that makes you feel sexy. Wearing a pair of high heels isn’t enough. Your outfit needs to match your mood and how you feel inside. For example, if you’re feeling adventurous, wear a short skirt and stockings. On the other hand, if you want to feel like a normal adult, wear slacks. Find clothing that makes you feel confident and sexy. As far as makeup goes, wear any kind of lipstick (preferably red), mascara, eye liner, etc. Makeup is important because it helps accentuate certain features without having to worry whether you’ll look fat. It also adds color and drama to your face.
Give a performance — for yourself. Put on some music and dance around the room in front of the mirror doing whatever comes up in your head. Go crazy! Move your arms, legs, hips, backside, chest, stomach, hands and feet however you please. Use accessories such as scarves, hair pins, curling irons, etc. to add more movement to your motions. Experiment with all kinds of positions such as standing up straight, lying down horizontally, sitting cross-legged, kneeling, bent over, squatting, etc. If you’ve never tried dancing, now might be the perfect opportunity! Take a break every once in awhile to catch your breath.
Keep a sex journal. Write down what turned you on last night, what you liked most, what you’d like to happen next week, etc. Keeping track of these things will help keep you focused on specific areas of pleasure. In addition to keeping a written record, create visuals which represent what turns you on. Examples include pictures, drawings, videos, etc. Having visual representations of sexual fantasies is very helpful because it keeps you from becoming bored with your repertoire.
Get naked in nature. Have you ever noticed how beautiful the trees are during springtime? They’re covered in little flowers, their leaves are green and full and they’re bathed in sunlight. All of these things contribute to giving us feelings of happiness, comfort, peace and joy. Why not bring those same feelings to yourself? Take a walk outside in the sunshine, lay back under the shade of a tree and watch the birds chirp away above you, listen to the wind rustle the leaves near you, smell the fresh air, and let your mind wander. When you’re done, lie back and close your eyes. Feel free to touch yourself where you’d like.
Try taking a nap outdoors if you live somewhere cold. Enjoying the sun makes you feel great. But remember to put on sunscreen lotion, especially on your face and lips. Also, don’t forget to drink plenty of water throughout the day. Drinking alcohol dehydrates you and leads to dry skin.
Enjoy a nice bath. Baths are relaxing. Plus, they allow you to remove dirt, grime, makeup, etc. afterwards. Be mindful when bathing to use warm water instead of hot water. Hot water burns sensitive parts of our bodies. And avoid using soap as much as possible. Instead, soak in a saltwater bathtub containing Epsom salts (or sea salts). Saltwater baths are even more relaxing. Just relax and float around in the tub. If you have a Jacuzzi, take advantage of its jets for added stimulation.
Take a trip to the local spa. Most spas offer various services including massage therapy, facials, manicures and pedicures, waxes, massages, aromatherapy, energy work, etc. These treatments tend to be expensive, so save your money for later. However, you can still indulge in self-care by indulging in a few pampering sessions. Indulge in a facial or two, spend half an hour in the sauna, enjoy a massage or two, go for a dip in the pool, etc. Remember to always stay hydrated after receiving these types of treatments.
Find a partner. Find a lover, buddy, soulmate, friend, etc. Someone special whom you can talk to freely. Share your thoughts, ideas and desires with them. Trust me; this is a huge step forward. It allows you to open up to someone and share intimate details of your life with them. It brings you closer together emotionally and physically.
Spend quality time with family and friends. Spend your weekends with loved ones. This gives you the chance to reconnect with people. We often neglect our families and friends when we get caught up in our busy lives. Spending time with them reduces stress levels and allows us to focus on the present moment. It also reminds us why we value relationships in the first place.
Don’t compare yourself to others. Stop comparing yourself to others’ standards. Everyone has their own unique style and beauty. Let everyone shine.
Cuddle up indoors. Cuddling up indoors is enjoyable and fun. Whether you snuggle with your significant other or a pet, cuddling creates intimacy between two people. It provides warmth, security and affection. You can snuggle with pillows, blankets, jackets, sweaters, etc., depending on the weather.
Learn about your own body. Learn about your own anatomy. Understanding the female body takes time and effort. Read books, watch educational movies, attend workshops and seminars, etc. Knowledge is power and knowledge is yours for the taking.
Explore new forms of entertainment. Explore new forms of media which interest you. This includes watching TV shows, reading magazines, browsing websites, listening to podcasts, playing video games, etc. New forms of media help stimulate your senses and provide variety. Variety is key to enjoying ourselves sexually.
Do what makes you happy. Doing what makes you happy is extremely beneficial. If you follow your passions and goals, you won’t feel stuck. Life becomes less stressful and more fulfilling. Some examples of things you could do include traveling, hiking, running, writing stories, painting, drawing, playing sports, working out, exercising, learning, cooking, gardening, photography, etc.
Be proud of who you are. Be proud of yourself. Love and accept yourself unconditionally. Appreciate yourself for who you are and what you do for others.
Appreciate yourself. Recognize and appreciate the good in yourself. You deserve appreciation. Treat yourself accordingly. Appreciation is a gift you give yourself. It can come in the form of compliments, gifts, making plans, showing affection, etc.
Forgive yourself. Forgiveness is essential. If you hold onto guilt, shame, blame, resentment, anger, bitterness, etc., you stop living fully. Forgiving yourself frees you up to move forward in your life. You no longer have to punish yourself for past mistakes. You can finally move on and experience more positive emotions in the future.
Masturbation is a natural process. It plays an integral role in human reproduction. Our ancestors masturbated frequently because it helped them reproduce successfully. People today masturbate to relieve tension, deal with anxiety, cope with depression, celebrate events, etc. Masturbating responsibly ensures no harm comes to oneself or another. Masturbation is healthy and fun. It can reduce stress levels, lead to better sleep patterns, increase libido, prevent disease, promote longevity, enhance creativity, boost athletic prowess, etc. Masturbation also promotes overall health and wellness.
Masturbate wisely. Maintain healthy practices surrounding masturbation. Don’t use drugs or alcohol prior to masturbation. Cleanse your genital area properly before touching yourself. Wash your hands after masturbation. Always use protection when engaging in vaginal intercourse.”
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