What Is The Best Way To Masterbate
“Masturbation is one of life’s joys, but there are so many different ways to do it. Any position that you can ejaculate in is a great position! Some guys like to masturbate cross-legged or kneeling. They say that it keeps them from tensing their legs too much, and leads to a better orgasm. Some guys like to masturbate standing up in the shower. Sitting in a chair is fine too. Or lying on your side. Or sitting down at a desk. There’s no right way to masterbate, just find what works for you.
Some people think that masturbation requires some sort of special equipment – things like sex toys, oils, lubricants, lotions, etc. But these aren’t really necessary. You can use anything around you that feels good – soap, shampoo, toilet paper, a washcloth, whatever. Just make sure that you don’t try to get off with something that makes noise (like a vibrator) if you’re trying to keep yourself from being caught by someone who might be in the next room, or hear noises coming from other parts of the house. A soft sound will work best.
There are also lots of positions that men have found helpful when they masturbate. Try doing each one until you feel comfortable enough to go all the way through without stopping (which we’ll talk about later). For example, I’d recommend starting out with having your partner lie face down on the bed and then move into spooning her with your genitals against hers. Then you can move onto a variety of different positions where you’re facing away from each other (e.g., back to front), which can lead to more intense orgasms. Other positions include missionary style, woman on top, and doggystyle. If you want to see how far you can take this, try spending an entire night engaging in sexual activities together – oral sex, mutual masturbation, intercourse, etc. This will give you a sense of what both of you enjoy as well as what you need to improve upon. Once you’ve done this, you should practice masturbating alone whenever possible.
The reason why most men masturbate while looking at porn is because it helps them stay focused. Porn focuses your mind and gets rid of distractions. It’s easy to lose track of time when you’re watching porn. When you’re masturbating, you should do everything you can to avoid thinking about anything else other than the fact that you’re going to come soon. It’s important to not let any thoughts enter your head during this period, especially negative ones. Your goal is to become completely absorbed in your own body. Even though you may sometimes feel guilty about focusing only on your genitals, trust me when I tell you that it’s worth it. Masturbating is supposed to bring pleasure, and you won’t experience true pleasure if you allow negative feelings to distract you from pleasuring yourself.
It’s very common for people to worry about getting caught masturbating. But if you’re careful, you shouldn’t ever have to worry about anyone seeing you. Here’s a suggestion. Before you start masturbating (or before you leave home), put your underwear inside your pants. Wear long sleeves over your shirt. Put on gloves. Look under your couch cushions, behind your curtains, etc. Find somewhere that you know others wouldn’t look. Also, consider using lube. Lubricated condoms are pretty effective. And you can always buy lubricant at any drug store. Using lube can make masturbation easier (and less messy). Another option is to wear a condom over your penis and scrotum. This can help increase sensitivity. You could even wear two pairs of latex panties on your thighs. This will ensure that nothing slips between your thighs and gives you added protection.
If you stop masturbating midway through, you may end up feeling frustrated and depressed. So it’s important to learn how to control your urge to finish once you’ve started. One technique is to focus on a single part of your body. Concentrate on what you would imagine it would feel like to be fully aroused. In particular, concentrate on your PC muscle (the one closest to the anus). Once you feel your muscles tightening, begin moving your hips in circles. Do this slowly at first. After a few minutes, speed up the pace. Keep repeating this process until you can’t hold it anymore and you must complete your session quickly. This will help train your brain to recognize when you’re close to finishing.
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