Why Do Girls Not Like Me
We’ve all been in that situation where we’re sitting across from someone and they look us straight in the eye, then after a moment or two their eyes glaze over as if they’re seeing something much more attractive than what we are. Unfortunately for you, you’re not sure why exactly that is but your heart skips a beat at the thought that maybe you just aren’t very interesting to them right now. It hurts but most times you don’t have control over whether that person will like you back or not so you end up taking the rejection personally. But sometimes it really isn’t about you! Sometimes it’s about them. Here’s how to find out.
There are many reasons girls might reject you. The first thing to do is to take a step back and analyze if you actually did anything wrong. If you think about it, you’ll notice that when you approach a new girl you always try to be charming. You want her to see you as the best version of yourself. And while that may work well for getting some dates, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re going to get the girl of your dreams. Or, even worse, you could end up doing everything perfectly and still not get the girl of your dreams because of one simple reason – she’s already dating somebody. This happens way too often and it’s mostly due to lack of confidence. Most guys wouldn’t even know what to say when talking to a girl who has a boyfriend. They would feel nervous and awkward until they realize that no matter what they say, the girl won’t change her mind. So instead of wasting time trying to convince her, they’d rather keep quiet and wait for her to make the next move.
That being said, when you talk to a girl who already has a boyfriend, you need to remember that she probably feels like she needs to tell you that herself. She’s already thinking of excuses to leave early so she doesn’t waste her night chatting around with you. Don’t ever take it personally; she’s busy focusing on other things and obviously she thinks she deserves better. Now it’s your turn to go home and concentrate on improving yourself. In order to become more appealing to women, you must understand that attraction isn’t just physical beauty but also personality.
The only problem here is that if you’re shy, you probably aren’t used to approaching people and making conversation. One good idea to overcome that is to join an online social network like Facebook or Myspace. These sites allow you to interact with others without face-to-face contact which makes you feel less self-conscious about meeting new people. Of course, if you’re looking for real relationships, joining a social site is not enough. You should also start creating your own blog or website to express yourself. That way you can share your thoughts and ideas freely, and if you happen to meet someone through the process, they’ll be able to read your writing and eventually decide if they find you attractive.
Now let’s assume that you’ve tried and failed at both approaches. Perhaps you were rejected by a girl who had a boyfriend because you didn’t do anything wrong. Maybe the reason was completely unrelated to you. Some people simply prefer different types of personalities. For example, if you enjoy sports, chances are that the woman you met prefers reading books or watching movies. On the flip side, if you’re into science and technology, perhaps she loves painting pictures or cooking gourmet dishes. Whatever interests you have, you should focus on them since that’s what attracts women. Once you’re confident about those areas, you’ll naturally become more comfortable around them and therefore attract attention from the opposite sex.
If you’re having trouble finding common ground with someone, consider asking questions about their hobbies. Women love sharing their innermost feelings with men who show interest in them, and if you ask the right questions, they’ll be happy to give you advice about the topics you care about. Remember that you never know how long these conversations will last, however, and that you shouldn’t expect a quick answer. At least now you’ll know why she wasn’t interested in you.
As mentioned earlier, sometimes it’s simply a case of chemistry. There are certain people who are perfect matches for each other. A lot of people fall victim to this type of relationship because they don’t pay attention to the signs. Usually, the guy who falls for such a girl doesn’t even realize he likes her. He finds himself constantly attracted towards her and doesn’t know why. Luckily, once his crush starts paying attention to him, he realizes that he’s in love and that she’s the one he wants to pursue.
If you’re lucky enough to stumble upon such a match, congratulations! However, if you’ve fallen in love with someone who is already in a serious relationship, you should forget about pursuing her for fear of losing her. Instead, you should use this as motivation to become a better man. Be patient and continue working on yourself. Eventually, you’ll find someone who appreciates you for who you are and treats you accordingly. Believe me, it does happen sometimes!
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