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Why Do Guys Like Doggy Style

by Lyndon Langley
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Why Do Guys Like Doggy Style

Why Do Guys Like Doggy Style

Sex is complicated. It requires coordination, timing, stamina, rhythm and energy. If it were easy, everyone would be having mind blowing orgasms every time they had sex. What makes sex so difficult? The human body. We have different bodies and our sexual organs are shaped differently from other people’s. Our anatomy is complex and there are dozens of ways we can pleasure each other.
And then there’s cunnilingus — literally licking the vulva. It sounds simple enough, but it can take hours. First you need the proper angle, which varies per person. Then you have to lick around her clitoris and labia while she’s lying down, which isn’t exactly convenient. And if you’re doing it wrong, you’ll end up missing her G spot or just giving her an unpleasant taste experience.
Doggy style takes away all those pesky problems. There’s no touching. No grunting. Heavy breathing. Strained joints. Weird noises. Urine, semen, feces. Plus, when you’re having sex doggie style, you’re usually looking directly at your partner’s face. That means you get to see what she looks like during orgasm and even possibly witness her facial expressions. Which is nice.
It’s also easier than regular intercourse because there’s no sitting back and letting gravity pull you downwards. Plus, doggy style allows for more thrusting power since you’re not trying to balance yourself against the weight of your partner’s legs. In fact, you might notice that most guys who love this position are tall, or at least taller than their partners. This may be due to the fact that men tend to stand straight with their erections pointed upwards, allowing them to penetrate deeper with minimal effort.
So why does anyone actually prefer doggy style? Here are some reasons:
You know how dogs love to “help” humans by bringing them things? Well, many women feel the same way about a man’s erection. They want to help him in bed. Some women enjoy being penetrated by a long hard object, especially if it’s thicker than average. Others like feeling fullness. Still others like pressure. A lot of women enjoy the sensation of having something inside of them. So, it’s possible that men find doggy style enjoyable because it feels good to them.
If you think about it, however, there are plenty of drawbacks to doggy style too. For example, it doesn’t allow for much variation. She’s either facing forward or backwards. Most couples aren’t comfortable switching between these two positions. Also, it doesn’t really lend itself well to multiple penetrations. If you’ve ever tried to switch directions midstream, you know that it can cause serious pain.
Of course, it’s great for quickies. Not only is penetration faster, but you don’t have to worry as much about getting off before your girl does. But still, there are some pretty major disadvantages.
But let’s say you’re looking for a little variety in the bedroom. How else could you go? Enter anal sex! Yes, though it’s been done before, anal sex has never gotten its own category in mainstream porn. I’m sure that will change soon, but until then, here’s where you can go for a little fun…
Anal Sex 101
First things first, you should know that you shouldn’t use your fingers. Don’t try to put anything smaller than a finger tip in there. Anal tissue is sensitive and if you press down too hard, it can hurt. Instead, you should use a larger dildo, preferably phallic ones. These toys are designed to stimulate the rectum without causing any undue discomfort. You can purchase them online or at adult stores. Just make sure to check the size chart beforehand.
Second, you should consider using a lube. Even if you haven’t used it before, you probably already have a favorite type. If you don’t, you should try warming it up slightly before putting it anywhere near your anus. Lubricants soften everything, including skin, muscles and bones. Your rectum is very sensitive and if you don’t lubricate, it can become irritated.
Now that you know the basics, let’s talk technique. Once you’ve found your perfect toy, insert it slowly. Start out small. You don’t want to shove that big thing right up your ass. Let it hang freely for a few minutes. Now, you can begin moving in circular motions. Start out slow. When you start moving fast, you risk pushing the toy further in. Take your time. Be patient. You want to stay close to the opening. As you move, you should rotate the shaft. Try to vary speeds because speed changes can create new sensations.
When you’re ready, you can add a second toy. Again, start out small. You don’t want to push it in too far. Make sure it’s clean and dry. Use lots of lube. Insert it slowly. Get creative. Experiment with different angles. Remember, don’t rush.
Lastly, remember to breathe. Deep breaths can help relax you. Hold onto your partner’s hand and place your free hand on your chest. Breathe deeply through your nose. Focus on relaxing instead of climaxing. Afterward, just lie there. Enjoy the afterglow.
As you can see, anal play is much more involved than simply shoving a giant rod up your ass. Though once you master the basics, it can open up a world of possibilities.
I’m curious. Have you ever thought about playing around in the rear? Tell me about it in the comments section below.

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